People break up and make up – after all, nothing lasts forever right?However, as you think about getting back, there are a number of things that must be put in perspective.

ARE YOU READY TO PUT IT ALL BEHIND YOU?

Sometimes, we want to get back with an Ex not necessarily because we need them, but because we miss and want them – there’s a difference.

If you’re getting back with your Ex because you perceive them as ‘different and ‘changed’, fine, but it can’t be because you just miss their presence in your life. They have to have convinced you they’re no longer toxic for your wellbeing, and you have to convince yourself you’re over the hurt they put you through, and you’re willing to look towards tomorrow.

 

WHAT DOES IT MEAN FOR YOUR FUTURE?

If you’re going to get back with someone you ran away from, it better be all for the best. It can’t be for another week or month of sex, there has to be more than that in it for you. Are they coming back because they want to settle down? If that is the case, not a bad idea. Otherwise, just look the other way.

 

YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY?

When things went sour between you and that same person, there were people who stood by you, and loved and supported you through the ordeal. It makes sense to consider their feelings about getting back with the same person.

Of course it’s your life and happiness, but you have to think about why they seem not so eager about the news of you reuniting with your Ex. Maybe it’s for the best. Either way, think it through and make sure you don’t take a regrettable decision.