Let’s face it most of us argue at some point in our relationships but this can be a healthy sign that proves your relationship is really strong enough to survive over the long term. But at what point should you be concerned with your relationship not going in the right direction?
Nothing stands still. Good or bad, we keep evolving. In relationships, we either grow together or apart — we rarely just stay the same.
Every relationship is completely unique; there is no one size fits all. This is one of the reasons I absolutely love what I do, helping people to let go of the hurt and pain to form loving relationships with themselves first and then others.
Most of us look to do this the other way round and it usually ends in tears. Every situation is different and every relationship is exclusive so my work is enormously varied.
Let’s look at some of the things that can start to slide when your relationship has become routine, so you can nip them in the bud before they become too much to handle. I’ve suffered all of these at some point in my marriage and so have most of my clients.